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You think you’re falling in love. You’re really attracted to a certain person. But this happened before, and it was just a “crush.” How can you tell if it’s real this time? Here’s what our readers said: 你觉得你恋爱了，你被他深深吸引了。但这并不是第一次了，上次的惨痛经历还历历在目。那你怎么知道这次是真的了呢？请参考一下读者给我们的建议吧： If you’re in love....... 如果你恋爱了， ❤ you’ll find yourself talking to or telephoning the person for no reason.(You might pretend there’s reason, but often there’s not.) 你会没有缘由地不停地给他打电话，逮着机会就抓住他说个不停（尽管你觉得这并不是“毫无缘由”的） ❤ you’ll find yourself bringing this person into every conversation.(“When I was in Mexico-,”a friend begins. You interrupt with, “My boyfriend made a great Mexican dinner last week.”) 你会不停地谈起他（一个朋友刚说了：“我在墨西哥的时候。。。”，而你立马打断：“上个礼拜我男朋友煮了一顿超棒的墨西哥晚餐给我吃。”） ❤ you might suddenly be interested in things you used to avoid.(“When a woman asks me to tell her all about football, I know she’s fallen in love,”said a TV sports announcer.) 你会很突然地喜欢上以前无限厌恶的东西（体育电视的解说员说：“如果一个女人滔滔不绝地跟我聊足球，那么她一定是恋爱了。”） Ok, so you’re fallen in love. But falling in love is one thing, and staying in love is another. How can you tell, as time passes, that you’re still in love? If you stay in love, your relationship will change. You might not talk as much about the person you are in love with. You might not always call him or her so often. But this person will nevertheless become more and more important in your life. 好吧，你真的恋爱了。但恋爱是一回事，爱情却是另外一回事。你怎么知道你的爱恋经久不变呢？如果你的爱恋始终如一，那么你们的关系就会改变。你可能不会再动不动就谈起他，你可能不会再动不动就给他打电话，但是他在你的生命中却越来越重要。 You’ll find that you can be yourself with this person. When you first fell in love, you were probably afraid to admit certain things about yourself. But now you can be totally honest. You can trust him or her to accept you just as you are. Falling in love is great-staying in love is even better! 你会发现跟他在一起的时候，你可以很自然地表现出真实的自己。尽管刚开始恋爱的时候，你有些局促，不自觉地隐藏了一部分想法。可现在，你可以坦然面对他。你相信他/她爱的就是你的全部。恋爱是美妙的，爱情是超美妙的。

从职业学校毕业后，我开始在一个购物中心做收银员。虽然这份工作不容易，却很有趣。我每天都会遇到很多人，老的、少的。大部分顾客是诚实的。我还记得一位女士，她换给了我十元钱。那是周六，购物中心有许多顾客。下午9点，我觉得累的时候一个中年妇女出现在我面前说，“你找错钱了。”我开始觉得愤怒。但在我说话前，她拿出了十元。“你多给了我十元。”她笑着说。我觉得羞愧。多么诚实的女士啊！